Behaviour is communication — especially for neurodivergent children. This category explores inclusive, compassionate strategies for supporting pupils who express their needs through behaviours that challenge.
You’ll find trauma-informed approaches, low-demand parenting ideas, classroom de-escalation techniques, and sensory-aware behaviour support plans. Whether you’re a teaching assistant, SENCO, or parent, these resources help you respond to behaviour with curiosity, not control.
Why Just Saying “No” Fails in Special Education Picture the scene. You are in a busy classroom. The noise level is rising fast. You spot a student reaching for a full cup of water right next to a laptop. Your instinct kicks in immediately. Before you can think, you shout, “No! Stop that!” It feels … Read more
The Biology of the Scream You know the sound. It is not the whining cry of a child who wants a sweet. It is a guttural, terrifying scream that seems to come from their toes. When this happens in the middle of a supermarket, the world judges you. They see a naughty child and a … Read more
The Fear of the “Spoiled” Child There is a question that parents whisper in support groups or late at night on forums. It usually comes after they have been told to stop using time-outs, sticker charts, and strict punishments. They ask: “If I stop punishing my child, how do I stop them from becoming spoilt? … Read more
The shift towards low-demand parenting for neurodivergent children, particularly those with Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), acknowledges the complexities of parenting and the systemic barriers faced. While beneficial, it is not a panacea. Understanding misapplications, parental burnout, and school challenges is crucial in providing effective support and enhancing family outcomes.
Picture the scene: A chair goes over. A student is screaming. Another student is cowering. Your heart rate spikes. Adrenaline floods your system. It is a natural, human instinct to meet chaos with volume. You want to take control. You want to ensure safety. So, your voice raises, and you issue a command: “STOP IT … Read more
The “SOS” Staff Guide: Safety, Observation, Support This isn’t about control. It is about keeping everyone safe until the storm passes. Behaviour is just communication with the volume turned up. Our job is to listen, not to win. When things get hot, we keep our cool. We are the calm in their chaos here is … Read more
EHCP Target Bank Aligned to the SUCCESS Framework This target bank offers examples of EHCP outcomes and short-term targets aligned to the SUCCESS principles for behaviour support. SENCOs can use this to shape provision that is specific, sustainable, and focused on building meaningful skills. Creating effective Education, Health, and Care Plans (EHCPs) is crucial for … Read more
A Practical Guide for Teachers and Parents on Managing Sensory Overload This guide is for teachers who want real answers. We don’t need more acronyms. We don’t need more complex charts that sit in a binder and gather dust. We need a practical way to understand regulation in the classroom. This is especially true for … Read more
Classrooms are filled with students who bring unique personalities, experiences, and ways of interacting with the world. While this diversity enriches learning, it can also present challenges for teachers who encounter behaviors they don’t immediately understand. For teachers, these moments can feel confusing or concerning. But behind every behavior is a reason. Teachers must learn … Read more
What to Do When You Can’t Follow or Implement a Behavior Intervention Plan You may encounter situations where implementing a student’s Behavior Intervention Plan (BIP) feels overwhelming, impractical, or ineffective. This challenge is more common than you might think, and recognizing when a plan isn’t working, or when you need additional support to implement it, … Read more
When Nothing Seems to Work: A Preview of What’s Possible This article offers a glimpse into Chapter 19 of “Behaviours of Concern, Not Children of Concern: A Real-World Handbook for Inclusive Classrooms” – a guide on how educators support their most vulnerable pupils. You’ve tried everything. Visual supports, sensory circuits, behaviour charts, consequence hierarchies. You’ve … Read more
Regulate, Relate, Reason: A Step-by-Step Guide to Building Connection with Traumatized Kids When a child is struggling, maybe they’re melting down, shutting down, or pushing everyone away, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. As a parent or teacher you wonder what’s going wrong. But here’s the thing: those behaviors aren’t random. They’re often rooted in trauma, … Read more
Replacement Phrases: A Powerful Shift in Communication When a child is overwhelmed, dysregulated, or emotionally flooded, the instinct to say “calm down” is common but often counterproductive. Neurodivergent children may find this phrase confusing or invalidating, especially those with sensory processing differences or communication challenges. Instead of demanding calm, what if we model it? Instead of silencing emotion, … Read more
Challenging Behaviour in SEND: Impulse Control, Demand Avoidance and Shame Over the past decade, awareness of Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND) in schools has improved. Yet, despite progress in identification and support planning, there remains a significant blind spot: how certain SEND needs interact with—and often intensify—each other. When impulse control difficulties, demand avoidance, … Read more
Challenging Toileting and Clothing Behaviours: A Practical Guide for Teachers Are you struggling with a student who frequently removes clothing or urinates inappropriately in your classroom? You’re not alone. As educators working with neurodiverse pupils, these challenges can feel overwhelming, but evidence-based solutions exist. This comprehensive guide offers practical, compassionate strategies that respect your student’s … Read more
Understanding Self-Reg and Why It Matters Have you ever wondered why some children seem to manage their emotions with ease while others struggle with even the smallest setbacks? Self-Reg is the key to understanding these differences. It’s not about discipline or control but about recognising the stressors that affect a child’s ability to self-regulate and … Read more
Using the Functional Analysis Screening Tool (FAST) Tool for Quick Behavioral Screening: A Guide for Teachers and Parents Understanding and addressing behavioral challenges is more crucial than ever given the high rate of exclusions facing Neurodiverse children. The Functional Analysis Screening Tool (FAST) is a practical, evidence-based instrument that empowers teachers and parents to quickly … Read more
Zones of Regulation Tool: A Guide to Emotional Well-Being Welcome to the Zones of Regulation Tool, a practical and interactive resource designed to help you understand and manage your emotions effectively. Based on Leah Kuypers’ Zones of Regulation framework, this tool provides strategies and activities to help you stay in the “Green Zone”—the optimal state … Read more
Functional Assessment Tools Understanding behaviour through a neurodiversity-affirming lens means recognising that all behaviours serve a purpose and are a form of communication, intentional or otherwise. Rather than viewing certain behaviours as “problematic” or something to be “fixed,” this tool helps identify the underlying needs driving an individual’s actions. The functions of behaviour framework can … Read more
Supporting Sensory Seekers: Understanding and Managing Mouthing Behaviours Imagine this: it’s mid-afternoon, and your child has found a shiny, smooth pebble on the playground. Before you can intervene, it’s already in their mouth. To them, this isn’t just a rock—it’s a treasure trove of sensory information. The coolness of the stone, its smooth edges, and … Read more
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